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Online Couples Therapy

Reconnect and Strengthen Your Relationship

Relationships can hold incredible tenderness - and, at times, deep tension. When communication breaks down, trust erodes, or silence replaces closeness, it can feel like the ground between you has shifted.


At Lived Experience Solutions (LEXs), I offer online couples therapy and relationship counselling across Australia, helping partners rebuild connection, communication, and emotional safety. Whether you attend together or begin individually, therapy provides a space to understand patterns, repair trust, and rediscover closeness - wherever you are in Australia.


What You Can Expect

Every session is guided by compassion, honesty, and practical tools drawn from evidence-based approaches such as Emotion-Focused Therapy and Attachment Theory. Together, we work to:

  • Improve communication and emotional understanding

  • Rebuild trust after conflict, distance, or betrayal

  • Strengthen intimacy and secure attachment

  • Navigate grief, health, or parenting challenges as a team

  • Support respectful transitions when relationships change


At LEXs, sessions last a full 90 minutes - giving you time to breathe, reflect, and connect without feeling rushed. You and your partner can join from separate locations, making therapy accessible for busy couples, FIFO work, or long-distance relationships.


What Online Couples Therapy Can Help With

Therapy at LEXs can support you through:

  • Communication breakdowns or feeling unheard

  • Jealousy, mistrust, or rebuilding after betrayal

  • Emotional distance or โ€œgrowing apartโ€

  • Parenting and blended-family pressures

  • Cross-cultural or interfaith relationships

  • Grief, trauma, or major life transitions

  • Restoring affection, intimacy, and emotional safety


Sessions are delivered securely online with no waitlists, offering flexible support when you need it most.


A Trauma-Informed, Culturally Responsive Approach

Having lived and worked across cultures, I understand how language, migration, gender roles, and family expectations can shape relationships. Therapy is not about blame; itโ€™s about understanding patterns and creating new ways of relating.


My practice combines trauma-informed care, cultural humility, and lived-experience insight to help couples communicate with kindness, manage conflict respectfully, and strengthen emotional connection.


๐ŸŒŸ Client Testimonials

โ€œMichael helped us find calm again after months of tension and miscommunication. The sessions gave us tools to talk without blame and listen with careโ€ S. & T., Perth, WA


โ€œWe were living apart for work and struggling to stay connected. Online couples therapy with LEXs helped us rebuild trust and remember why we chose each other.โ€ J. & R., Brisbane, QLD


โ€œI came to therapy on my own after our separation. Michaelโ€™s support helped me understand my patterns and start healing with compassion - for myself and my ex-partnerโ€A.M., Adelaide, SA


Take the First Step Toward Reconnection

Healthy relationships are built on empathy, respect, and emotional safety. Support can make all the difference.


Book your first online couples therapy sessionย - or reach out with any questions - to begin rebuilding trust and connection with yourself and your partner. Wherever you are in Australia, LEXs offers compassionate, flexible care to help you reconnect and grow together.


90-Minute Couples Therapy Session
1h 30min
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Meet Your Therapist

Michael Elwan

Iโ€™m ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—˜๐—น๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป - an  ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ-๐—ช๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—”๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ (๐—”๐—”๐—ฆ๐—ช), ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐—— ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต, and ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ (๐—Ÿ๐—˜๐—ซ๐˜€). Before I was a therapist, I was a carer, a son, a migrant - someone who learned early how love, loss, and silence can shape a life. Those experiences now sit at the heart of my work: helping people find safety in connection again.

For years, Iโ€™ve walked alongside couples, families, and individuals across mental health, grief, and suicide prevention. My approach is trauma-informed, culturally responsive, and emotionally attuned; rooted in respect, empathy, and the belief that real healing happens when people feel seen and understood.

I was honoured to receive the ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐—ช๐—” ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜ & ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, and to be named ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฌ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐—”๐—”๐—ฆ๐—ช ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€. I was also recognised as a ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ for the ๐—ฅ ๐—จ ๐—ข๐—ž? ๐—•๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ and the ๐—ช๐—” ๐— ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€ (๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ช๐—ถ๐—น๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ).

These acknowledgements mean a lot - but what matters most is what happens quietly in session: when two people begin to talk differently, listen more gently, and start finding their way back to each other.
Because healthy connection isnโ€™t a luxury. Itโ€™s the ground we stand on when life feels uncertain, and the thing most worth fighting for.

Iโ€™m ๐— ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฒ๐—น ๐—˜๐—น๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป - an ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ-๐—ช๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—”๐—ฐ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ (๐—”๐—”๐—ฆ๐—ช), ๐—ฃ๐—ต๐—— ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต, and ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—น๐˜‚๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€ (๐—Ÿ๐—˜๐—ซ๐˜€). Before I was a therapist, I was a carer, a son, a migrant - someone who learned early how love, loss, and silence can shape a life. Those experiences now sit at the heart of my work: helping people find safety in connection again.

For years, Iโ€™ve walked alongside couples, families, and individuals across mental health, grief, and suicide prevention. My approach is trauma-informed, culturally responsive, and emotionally attuned; rooted in respect, empathy, and the belief that real healing happens when people feel seen and understood.

I was honoured to receive the ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐—ช๐—” ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐˜๐—ต ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜ & ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜€๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป, and to be named ๐—ฆ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฌ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ ๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฑ ๐—”๐—”๐—ฆ๐—ช ๐—ก๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—น๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€. I was also recognised as a ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜ for the ๐—ฅ ๐—จ ๐—ข๐—ž? ๐—•๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ ๐—›๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐— ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ and the ๐—ช๐—” ๐— ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ๐˜€ (๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ฟ ๐—ฅ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ช๐—ถ๐—น๐˜€๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ ๐—”๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ).

These acknowledgements mean a lot - but what matters most is what happens quietly in session: when two people begin to talk differently, listen more gently, and start finding their way back to each other.
Because healthy connection isnโ€™t a luxury. Itโ€™s the ground we stand on when life feels uncertain, and the thing most worth fighting for.

Michael Elwan - Award Winner - 2025 WA Mental Health Award - Lived Experience Impact & Inspiration
Michael Elwan - Finalist AASW Excellence Award - Social Worker of the year
Michael Elwan Finalist Barbara Hocking Award 2025
Michael Elwan Finalist - Mental Health Leadership Award 2025 for Multicultural Mental Health in Australia
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